by Loren Seibold
Most of my Christian friends, even some of the very conservative ones, understand that homosexual people didn't choose to be homosexual. Still, many of us think, "But why must they act on it?" We interpret Scripture to say that heterosexual people should refrain from sexual intercourse if they are unmarried. Can't the same legitimately be expected of people with a homosexual orientation?
I was recently sent a link to this presentation by Matthew Vines, a gay Christian scholar, given at a church in Wichita in 2012. I've heard others give similar interpretations of these six anti-homosexuality passages, though Matthew presents them with a clarity and humility that makes them a pleasure to hear again. Whatever you think about the larger question, this is well-crafted apologetics.
One section in his introduction particularly caught my attention.
It's an exegesis that was new to me, and it made me think again about the celibacy question. This is a transcript from Matthew's presentation.
"In the first two chapters of Genesis, God creates the heavens and the earth, plants, animals, man, and everything in the earth. And He declares everything in creation to be either good or very good – except for one thing. In Genesis 2:18, God says, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” And yes, the suitable helper or partner that God makes for Adam is Eve, a woman. And a woman is a suitable partner for the vast majority of men – for straight men. But for gay men, that isn’t the case. For them, a woman is not a suitable partner. And in all of the ways that a woman is a suitable partner for straight men—for gay men, it’s another gay man who is a suitable partner. And the same is true for lesbian women. For them, it is another lesbian woman who is a suitable partner. But the necessary consequence of the traditional teaching on homosexuality is that, even though gay people have suitable partners, they must reject them, and they must live alone for their whole lives, without a spouse or a family of their own. We are now declaring good the very first thing in Scripture that God declared not good: for the man to be forced to be alone. And the fruit that this teaching has borne has been deeply wounding and destructive.
"This is a major problem. By holding to the traditional interpretation, we are now contradicting the Bible’s own teachings: the Bible teaches that it is not good for the man to be forced to be alone, and yet now, we are teaching that it is."
You might find it helpful to hear this 1-hour presentation, if not to be convinced, at least to hear from a thoughtful gay Christian who respects the Bible. Matthew also has a website that includes the transcript of the presentation.
I agree that Matthew presents his case very clearly and convincingly, and I appreciate your posting this, Loren.
Another thought on this issue that I think should be especially convincing to Seventh-day Adventists is the idea of "present truth."
Jesus told his disciples that He had more to tell them that they could not bear, so He would send His Spirit to guide them into all truth. I believe this means that God does not reveal more truth until people are ready and willing to hear it.
When our church started we believed that Jesus' imminent return and the Sabbath were "present truths" - truths that people were ready to hear and accept.
As I have seen the explosion of new information about homosexuality in the past few decades, and the struggles of nearly every denomination, as well as other world religions over this issue, I cannot help but believe that this is a "present truth" that the Holy Spirit is bringing to our attention. If we fail to recognize it, we will look back in shame.
Posted by: Carrol Grady | October 15, 2013 at 04:16 PM
Carrol, I'm familiar with this idea, but I'm not sure how useful it is. Most conservative churches aren't looking for new truth: they're conservative precisely because they're sticking with the old truths. Just because in the past someone got a new idea doesn't mean we want any now.
Posted by: Lseibold | October 16, 2013 at 01:48 PM
Not all hetro people are married to their perfect spouse. Some of them are alone too, but they don't get to got find a few more wives to help with the lonesomeness. Read this:
http://www.joshweed.com/2012/06/club-unicorn-in-which-i-come-out-of.html
Above is a link to an article I feel is one of the best things I have ever read on the subject of being gay and Christian. I thought it was very powerful and thought provoking. I know the path he took in life won't be chosen by everyone but he makes a good point. Homosexuality is a life full a tough choices. You
just can't have it all: universal acceptance, children, conservative
religion, God's approval, etc... I thought the way and where he ended up was amazing. Just sharing.
Posted by: Arthur Gibbs | October 16, 2013 at 06:12 PM
There is very bad theology in it. Protestant Apostasy is great evident in this video. He keeps referring to the church, the church, but our beliefs should be based upon the Bible and the Bible only.
Posted by: Bryan | October 17, 2013 at 09:09 AM
Arthur, that is as fascinating piece you shared! Thanks! As you said, not everyone will do the same, but that's an amazing couple, and I do admire them for doing what they feel is God's will for their lives.
Loren Seibold
Posted by: Lseibold | October 17, 2013 at 02:00 PM